Podcast Like a Pro: Lessons from a Chaotic First Year

We made it to Season 2, and honestly… we’re just as surprised as you are. In this anniversary episode, we’re pulling back the (faux fur) curtain to spill all the chaotic, unfiltered, occasionally sparkly lessons we’ve learned after a year of podcasting. From dead dad jokes to production burnout to figuring out our actual audience (spoiler: it’s basically Bill), we’re diving into what worked, what didn’t, and why we’re done pretending to be NPR. If you’ve ever thought about starting a podcast—or just want to hear how we survived ours—this one's for you.

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Chapters

• 0:00 Intro
• 0:30 One Year of Podcasting!
• 21:22 Podcasting Tips from Kristy
• 47:07 Dead Dad Jokes
• 53:58 Ambu-gigity

Transcript

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Here we are

again Just going to relax into this episode Yeah maybe not Cuz it's so exciting Happy one year It's our anniversary It's our anniversary I feel a little bit more like anniversary It feels like a 50th anniversary I feel like I should have a a shot of me on the floor just like mostly dead laying on the couch blood coming out of my ear

bruises a lot of crying happening but we did it We did it One year One year Look at us What's up Paul red We're going to read Paul Do you remember his what was it the hot is it hot wings is that the name of it where he's like "Look at us." Oh yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Look at us Look at us That's us That's us Who'd have thought who' have thought no for real Who would have thought i So you know I don't know if I would have thought I think when we started this I was kind of like I wanted to believe we would make it this far and was kind of like I don't know if this is going to happen And I worried that everyone in the background was like they're never going to keep this going This is a bit of a pipe dream And Bill was like I don't know what's going to happen here Let them have their fun Yeah There's get it out of their system There was a piece of me that felt like that too And I was just like I am I am I am stubborn to like my own detriment and was like no matter what happens no matter if the closest person to me on earth dies I'm not going to let this podcast die And here we are fam You lived it While you were like even if I die even if they have to take out parts of my body I'm going to be there So haters if you're watching we went through surgery and a major death to bring this to you So yeah you better appreciate it

I love that we can laugh about it I know Now it's kind of I don't know speaks to our mental state in a Yeah slightly worrisome way but at the same time it has brought this new version of the podcast back in a lot more fun way Yeah I I feel like we're both a little bit more unhinged than we were before Yes Which didn't seem possible People keep telling me that I really didn't think that was possible I felt like we had catapulted past that line but apparently there were more depths to be mine Here we are We can get crazier Apparently yeah So we have we take things even less seriously We uh we pushed Bill across the world with our craziness He fled the country just to get away from this combination I'm going to leave you guys here to do whatever you got to do and I'm going to take off across the world for two months Two This is the longest he's stayed out of the country and like away from the office Yeah I do feel a little bit proud about that Yeah Like we do take He literally has no login to the podcast So we could literally do whatever we want and will and will and are Tim's upstairs just like scared for his life Scared for his life Scared for his life And just like those women that I work with they're both crazier now We'll do whatever we want and with our powers combined Yeah Yeah No we've we've talked a lot about how we need to get back to part you know part of our roots but the roots being laughing more Things have been serious for too long necessity Like we cannot I and I feel like both of us coming back to this just out of necessity we cannot take it as seriously as we did before because we both were in situations where it was just so serious and life was just so heavy and serious and it puts it into perspective We're like "This is our little podcast." Like "This should not be the stress drama that it has been." Yeah You know we should not we should be enjoying it Otherwise why are we doing it right Otherwise why are we doing it nobody else is going to enjoy it if we're just like "God we have to do another episode and this is taking so much out of me." It's like no So we're we're definitely I think more relaxed and just more like here it is Yeah Like let's love it or leave it Yeah Like let's get dressed up again Let's remember what makeup is and more of our personalities coming out as well as like here's how our agency works Here are some things about our agency and about how we work with each other Um so we have shifted a little bit We we still do get Bill on here once in a while like to go heavy on the tech speak and yeah you know and people just love seeing him anyway He's a natural storyteller Like we love that's part of what we love about working with him too It's like you know lunchtime we always get a story about Bill's past or remember this time Picture it I was You think he's a hundred years old

i was painting this house on the hidic Jewish compound and you're like "Yeah what are you going to talk about is this going to be appropriate or like you just never know." Yeah it's true So Yeah So we're going to keep it appropriate mostly Mostly maybe Maybe But it's definitely going to be more I I feel like since our relaunch we just and looking at all the analytics that we had from the first year Yeah It it really informed us about okay what are the topics and um conversations that people are really dialing into and like are really interested in and have been responding to And overwhelmingly it's been episodes about more about our company culture or ones where we've like let loose our silly side and our personalities more And it's like okay you don't have we we did not need much encouragement to lean into that But it was nice being able to go to Bill and be like look at the numbers It's like we get to be silly now but still not you know well and we talked about it We're kind of like I mean going into this like we had certain expectations and beliefs about what what would work what people would want who our audience would be and again we were literally just going in based on those beliefs I mean there was some level of research behind it and making it ourselves but it was just a lot of like let us just kind of dive in and see what happens But now that we've had literally a year's worth of experience we're kind of like oh thinking about podcasting more it's like what would make somebody want to listen to a podcast and it's like well even if we're talking about marketing stuff people are not don't want to just like listen to it like it's NPR right or we're not We don't want We are not NPR We don't operate like we don't want to be NPR We could never be It's not us And so it's like we really have to kind of in the beginning I think we we definitely were way more like oh we can't say that Oh that's going to offend somebody Oh um maybe that's like not factual and maybe we have to be careful about how we word that And so it was like those first like we were over editing ourselves editing editing editing And I'm just like we got to the point where we're like let's just stop editing and just be who we are as an agency Mhm Yeah And I think like that's why our clients work with us That's why they stay with us because of who we actually are and not us trying to be anybody else And I feel like we did spend a little we did kind of lose sight of um who we were a little bit because we were trying to be like you know trying to um I keep hitting the mic stand It's okay I understand We are both gesturers and I'm surprised Bill doesn't hand it more Honestly keep your keep your hands down Okay Or just one one hand over here Gesture this way I'm gonna leave it like this How does Bill even bring his hand into the your my camera when I'm over there go gadget arm Wow I totally just dated myself Or his foot Like his foot's always coming in He's Gumby I guess I'm little but I'm not that little His whole body comes into my camera when I'm over there I forgot what I was talking about I'm so sorry No it's okay We got We were just talking about the shift that we made Yeah So not Oh okay I didn't remember what I was saying It was like we tried to mirror I think who we saw as like successful Yes In podcasting So we were like "Oh that works for them Let's let's try that to try to mirror their success because we had no reference for this We've never done it before Mhm We don't know you know we didn't really know what we wanted to do and we were still figuring out our audience and stuff like that And so we were like well let's try this and let's be a little bit stuffier than how we there'd be like little glimpses of personality and how much fun that we have working here but overall it was very buttoned up Well and I think which wasn't sustainable I don't think No I think too like some of the podcasts that I was for one thing I wasn't a big podcast listener to begin with and I think that was my kind of um first mistake Um I didn't I don't know why I thought that that would be fine I mean not that I'd never listened to a podcast or like I was completely unfamiliar but I was notic I was not a dedicated podcast listener And therefore I feel like that set me off on the wrong foot because I I was like "Oh I'll just dive into listening to this one this one this one." And with marketing podcasts I'm like "I don't like these." And I would never listen to them I wouldn't sign up for this I would never listen to this like lovingly I would never listen to this crap and so therefore trying to duplicate something that I myself would never want to listen to and I work in marketing who am I trying to draw for an audience and that's confusing and and like I know I still want to do this and I know that there is still an audience for this but like who is it because it's not even myself you know what I'm saying and that's confusing and so I think what what when the big kind of like big aha moment came for me is that when I was on my bereavement leave and shortly before um one of the things that happened is I when I found out my dad was going to die and had 8 weeks left to live something in my brain clicked where I couldn't listen to listen to music anymore I don't know I mean I I kind of know why but I don't really know why I could not listen to music at all anymore and music is always what I listen to in my car and so I discovered podcast on Tik Tok Um it's called Financial Audit If you've heard of it it's really fun Um and I so I looked it up and I just got super addicted to it and it's very like low stakes emotionally cuz it's just about you know people messing up their finances and him yelling at them And every episode I don't get it's nothing like crime related or like people are dying or like nothing children being abused or like not it's just like wow you're being a really big idiot with your money In the process I would occasionally have takeaways of like I'm being an idiot with my money too I need to cancel that credit card Whatever Um and so I would just start listening to that in my car everywhere I went I had an almost an hour drive to my parents every day going to see my dad So I was listening to it every day multiple times a day I was like binging this podcast and um watching the YouTube videos too and I started learning a lot like like really analyzing like why is this it's one of the the most popular podcasts on YouTube and for a reason because they're super just un unedited in the sense that anytime someone does whack the mic they don't edit it out there It's just kind of like why would you it's this is us just talking and it keeps it way more real and less scripted and like we've created like a scripted podcast movie for you You don't know what's going on behind the scenes cuz we're fake And I'm like that's why it's likable because I feel like I'm there and I know these people and that's what I wanted to replicate just as one piece of it And so I'm like that's what we're missing That's what we're missing We just needed to bring it back to real Y I think and and we did kind of finally another aha moment we had was figuring out who our ideal audience really was And we were like it's Bill Yeah It's people like Bill who are you know full of humor They have technical knowledge but also unconventional are funny love humor don't mind being silly but have the knowledge and the skills and the Yep knowhow you know right and we're like that sums up exactly like how we are as an agency and also who we're speaking to Like that's who we're trying to reach We're not Yep coming at you as like we're going to school you now Right Right Listen up Right We know right there Here are some dry facts Here are this is what you got to do to get ahead It's like we're going to help you get ahead but we're going to be having fun while we do it And we come at it just from a totally different angle So especially since marketing in general touches the lives of almost everyone in the sense that whatever career you're in um whatever you're doing marketing is in everything It's in when you are at the grocery store it is in psychology And so the different things that we talk about here it can apply to an audience that is so much wider than are you a person that works in the marketing field or or our clients are a lot of insurance um based clients or banking and like we're not just talking to you We're limiting ourselves by being like that's who we have to be speaking to It's not like that like we it's this is so much broader than that and and we're limiting ourselves by thinking we just have to we do have a lot of clients that listen we love you um but this can extend way beyond that Yeah And I think one of the insights that we gained too from this past year was in talking to our friends and family and a lot of them were like "No I don't listen." Yeah Because I'm not insurance I don't listen Why would I listen to marketing why would I listen to a marketing podcast i don't care about marketing Right And I'm like I don't either And you're like yeah good point Good point You know I shouldn't expect you just to support us in this venture like um and while we do talk a lot about marketing like you were saying there's just a lot of aspects to it that touch on stuff that everybody does in their daily life And even just like some of the insights that we talk about can be implemented into any kind of business or work environment Even like we just did that episode on communication that translates into your relationships into your family like just that's just that's broad in itself like how important that is like so it it the principles behind a lot of principles behind a lot of that we know everything basically we're a life coach we are life coaches we're rebranding as a life coach podcast we'll send you a shirt a planner Yeah Set up an appointment with us and we'll fix your life and your finances We're coming for you Caleb Oh no Yeah We just we've learned a lot and we're not too prideful to say that Like um it was a it was a big learning experience and we're still going to learn I mean we're still babies at this and I did know I knew that from the beginning I did not anticipate posting a couple and blowing up into millions of I never I never even for a moment thought that that would happen I don't think I was ready for that to happen No I was I this has been an a lot of work for this tiny little team as it is anyway And so I was not prepared to monitor the comments of a million people anyway So like it's fine that it hasn't Can you imagine no I'm scar I'm a little bit scared of people trolling me on the internet a little bit Part of you craves it I'm a little bit excited for it but I'm a little bit scared of it So I'm sensitive Okay So but we'll get to that point when we get We did already have a first troll on TikTok So like I'm That was exciting That was exciting And we got past it And it was They were trolling Bill not me So it was fine Um but that would happen That would happen Um but yeah so yeah we wanted to talk a little bit about like we're going to aim this toward other people that want to know about podcasting and if you want to podcast and things that I've learned and would and wouldn't do if I had to do this over Yeah Cuz like a lot of podcasts it is a big production They have like a big production team We started it was just the two of us and then you kept it going by yourself when I was on medical leave And so just that it's possible that you can start without like a 15 person department Yeah Yeah Dedicated solely to podcasting Is kind of cool because a lot of people probably feel like what business do I have starting a podcast i don't have like this whole Yeah production Yeah Especially if they're in a business setting like there are plenty of people that you know are set up it's just them right you know in a corner of their home and they're doing a true crime or something right So but as a business like when you first went to Bill to like kind of see how he felt about this idea um of doing it you weren't like "And I need to hire five people minimum." I knew that was happen this this and this It's like you were extremely resourceful in starting it So in fact I asked for so little money Yeah I knew if it was going to happen I'm like he's not funding this Yeah Like not initially Like I had to pick I mean he might he probably would have but I was just kind of like I'm not asking for much upfront um just to get this idea off the ground Um I mean we have a whole studio here anyway you didn't honestly need that much to kind of venture into even just for um I I was I was fortunate in that we already have a studio um and cameras I already have um video editing software and I have I have two desks with two computers I'm spoiled Um you're spread across this whole office everything belong and this whole kingdom is mine Um but so like I was already pretty set up as it as it was but when it comes to things like like per like um hosting services and I wanted new mics and like just little things like um I tipped I dipped my toes in So but um yeah so I think that like if I had to do it over again I think I would number one I I I wish that we had had our our our niche and audience and topic a little bit more ironed out defined and ironed out Um agree I wish that I had studied and listened to more podcasts and watched them especially on YouTube Um if you're going to video podcast I wish I had watched them um more so that I could have learned from what other people are doing successfully Um but besides that I feel like um because I because I was podcasting with Thaddius before I started with US I had like a little bit of like he taught me like how to join Buzzsprout as a hosting service Um and so getting set up through them is like really pretty easy Um I mean it costs money every month to host Um but you just get everything in there and they they really do the rest for you scheduling episodes out Um you it's a it is a lot of it is more time consuming than I thought it would be I guess that's a really good point I guess that is something that is important to know It is not as simple as getting in front of a mic and having fun talking Yeah it There's more steps to it than you think because it's not just recording and posting It's like there's so many tiny little steps in the process like creating chapter markers like um putting a transcription in like creating cover art not just for YouTube but for like the shorts and for Tik Tok and for Instagram and the social copy for every different platform and for the description of the episode and the show notes and like there's so many different bits that all of that takes time and thought and double-checking and scheduling and it's just a lot It is a lot And that's why a lot of businesses have a whole department of people working on a podcast because of all those details Like there's the front end which is you know you've got your hosts and the and the mics and the conversation but on the back end there's just so many details And like I didn't realize how much until I started seeing you handle all of that And like we've expanded our team since last year because we recognized we're like whoa we need help because this part of it takes up a lot of time too and just the scheduling and coming in So we're like we definitely need to have some more support to be able to do this moving forward So you do need some support unless you're dedicated to doing all the pieces Yeah And realizing that's going to be a full-time job in itself right right Yeah Um it's amazing that you did it Yeah You know when you stop and think about all those pieces and that this was not your full-time job You were also working on other client projects Like this was aside from your usual work making videos social media matter reporting and droning and everything else traveling on location for things and it's just like how and and your father with his situation and him dying you know while you're I'm also chronically ill right like I just I don't know how you did it It was like inhuman Yeah Yeah Just human Not inhuman superhuman Yeah No no no Both actually Yeah I was just determined Like I was so determined to make it work and I and I and this is important I recognized that it was super crucial to be consistent both like like making sure an episode got out every week and on time on schedule because I knew if I was going to keep any kind of audience that audience was only going to come back if they knew Tuesday mornings 5:00 a.m that's new episodes on whatever platform I rely on it It's got to be there And you did research there too Mhm Just a little side note like determining when to drop a new episode like when are you going to schedule this like that required thought and research too Like every single part of this required you to research something Yeah So like you were saying just the timeconsuming aspect of it I think people might not really get It's like oh you're just sitting in front of a mic and talking and right throwing it online And I'll tell you it helped that I mean I've been doing video editing for years and years and years now So that I mean I had that advantage too that it's I can I can whip out editing a video pretty fast now Um and so I had that advantage too But for someone coming into this that doesn't know video editing software or how to edit a video or how to listen real quick and I don't mean to talk down to anyone that doesn't that already knows there's multiple cameras and multiple um audio streams going which means I have to overlay them all Um which means I have to time them all evenly and then multiple things are getting spliced this whole episode So there's like a lot moving in my time in the timeline in addition to any kind of color grading audio sound editing like in addition to intros outros like all of it But because I have had years of doing that and I'm not saying that my a my video editing is perfect It's not And I I always will have work to do and I will always have criticism for my work And you're someone who's constantly learning so and looking to improve But because I've had years of knowing how to do that I can whip out it pretty fast and yet it still takes a lot of time Yeah Um and a lot of computer space Every SD card every one of these SD cards has a every episode is 100 gigs Yeah Isn't that wild and so my my that's why I have two computers The storage on my computers are like "We're dying." Please please We've had to upgrade your storage several times in the past year I have six external drives Yeah there my computer's like I'm going to kill myself like if you don't stop Um so it's so much organization It's so much shuffling um and keeping track of things carefully Like I feel like you have to have a distinct personality to be able to do this as a one I'm as type A as it gets babe Like and if you're not and if you're just throwing up with you I'm I'm more just the every every file has to go in a very specific place or your episode's lost It's just true And then the other thing is um learning how to you use YouTube properly M that I'm I'm still beating my head against the wall with that one because it's so it's like you have to learn all of the troll tolls rules to get through and it's like you like weird things from like and you have to name your audio file with proper SEO words before you even upload it because that matters You have to name your cover art file on your own like on your computer properly before you upload it I would have never thought that that matter that one little detail everything on the back end which you know that seems reasonable like like keywording in the back end fine but um then like hooking up the subscribe at the end like at the end of the video like there's just so many details that you have to learn how to do and it takes time and it's just lots and lots of steps and so um again if I was starting over I would I would take a any kind of and you and you know you can learn this all on YouTube Um I would learn all of that in advance Familiarize yourself Don't get overwhelmed Like if I can do it you can do it I have I have an eight times concussion brain If I can learn it you can learn it I learn really slowly Um but once it's there it's there like you also and I think your tremendous experience like you were saying too like you you have several things that set you up for being able to take this on because I think if someone's completely green when it comes to Oh I've never done any software worked with any editing software and I don't know my computer that well Yeah This might not be your thing No you know so I I feel like if you're already kind of in that zone and you already are doing video editing and you're already like doing some kind of media work I think it lends itself it's kind of like a natural progression Yeah Like it was for you This was very much a natural progression for you That's what it felt like even though it was so much work and still is Yeah It just seemed like a very natural thing Yeah And I think my biggest piece of advice because of that is don't be afraid to experiment We got like we had times where we got very stuck where where or I got I get stuck with myself because I want everything to be uniform where I would be like but I've already started making in videos with this specific intro so they all must be now And I'm like stop Christie It's oh permanent life lesson I've tried to burn into my brain is it's okay to change your mind Mhm Yeah And no one cares Like this is your project Like you it's if you don't use the same intro and start a new one great Maybe this one will perform better It's okay And so like just keep experimenting Maybe this new like audio f like file like will do better maybe this new intro outro will do better And since we have done that like this coming back um we have really started over with new experimentation It's done a lot better And so don't be afraid to do that Don't be afraid to change things up and shift gears Like you realize something's not working change it Yeah And one of the things I we didn't expect and we're going to kind of unfortunately unfortunately be doing less of is probably having less um outside interviews coming in and probably be focusing more on us Yeah Talk about the why of that too Um I think and and I think just good insights from that The biggest reason honestly is like we we I so enjoyed all the all the guests that I interviewed last year I think I learned I learned so much from every person that I interviewed and I really enjoyed them all know like I just I every person like flips into my head that I'm just like man those all those people were so interesting and had so much to teach us but ultimately at the end of the day I spent so much time mostly on LinkedIn partially on Instagram finding people and interacting with people and like trying to outreach to people and trying to decide is this person um real um are they someone that like fits in with like what we're doing Um do they have a real story to tell are they educated like do they know what they're talking about comfortable on a podcast Filtering through does this person work for the podcast and then if I if the answer to that is all yes getting them to commit scheduling them scheduling can be a nightmare recording with them and recording on Riverside was just like kind of like me like the quality of it like people didn't love those episodes because of the in-person like there was research behind in person working better Um and then just they just weren't performing as well and that's to no fault of the guests It was just kind of like that was becoming way too timeconuming right and it wasn't performing better anyway So we kind of were just like you know what with this new shift of like focusing on us and our stories um we're just going to focus more on that And I don't think that that's to permanently say we're never having a guest on again Right Right Cuz we will We will It's just that's not going to be our focus as much anymore Um it didn't turn out like we thought Yeah And we're just making it more personal And I think that I think that has incredible merit on its own like it it makes sense that that kind of was a natural progression too because um we've talked about it in several podcasts before how people have been like what do you do for work and how what are you guys working on and so talking about that more but showing more the personalities behind the work and this is what clients get when you work with us you get our skills and our knowledge but also our personality and I think you can't tell that from looking at someone's about us web page Yes You know where everybody has you know we we've got professional black and white photos up of each one of us and you're just this static stern looking executive Yeah You know and so we really saw this when we decided to relaunch as an opportunity to be like this is the personality behind that And now we're like maybe we need to redo those pictures because it'll feel like a bait and switch almost you know like we're not as buttoned up as our web page makes us seem Yeah it's true And like this is why people like to work with us This is why they stay working with us We make it enjoyable Y and we enjoy working with each other I think that just trickles down into our client relationships too It really does Our team absolutely loves working with each other Yeah And interacting and just collaborating and working like sinking our teeth into a project and enjoying the success of it together or sometimes when they fall flat then we're all like in it together to like how do we fix this And I told Bill like when I show like I gave him last year's like analytical report I told him like thinking about moving forward I'm like I want next year's podcast like season two uh to feel more like if you were just kind of coming down the stairs and walking in on us like what that would feel like for real Like what what would we be talking about what would we be working on what would be happening that's what I want the cameras to kind of feel like you're in on If we were if the cameras were off right now and you and I were just sitting here having conversation maybe a little filtered from our personal lives you can't walk in on that Maybe but like in general like what would that feel like if you were just here in person with us what and you were sitting on this end of the couch like what would it feel like if you were here with us because this is truly what it's like to be here And if you are one of our clients that has been here to visit us I'm sure that that is what you would say like this is very much just who we are and I think we put such a a high importance on that because it's important to us to feel that in return Yeah Exactly Exactly Like we want our clients to be real with us too right and we enjoy working with the ones that are very real and it's not corporate speak Yeah Let's be real This is what you need this is what we're going to do for you Let's work on this together Yep Yep I don't It's not Let's circle back right i don't work well in any relationship Synergy Yeah I don't No I don't work well in any relationship in my life where I feel like people are putting on any kind of like pretentious front I'm like you're hiding something This isn't who you are And I it's harder for me to be here trust you work with you have a relationship with you And so I don't want our clients to feel that way And I think across the board like the relationship part is the easiest part for us because we are very real with our clients and our clients we do get that back from them Mhm And so for us and I feel it's as it should be the challenging aspect is how are we going to produce what they need and it's a creative challenge It's not a personality challenge right i don't know if I'm explaining that right but I hear you You get what I mean It's it's the challenge is not h I cannot get this client to be real with me and like I feel like we're just not breaking through with them and it's just a awkward weird relationship It's like those ones don't last They don't we either fire them or they fire us like but it doesn't happen often because we are very unintentionally intentional you know it just happens that we're like we can't put I I don't know anybody here who can put on that front and just be like we're just buttoned up and Yeah all business Yeah There might be some that are more shy than others but like but it but everybody that's also genuine to who they are Exactly Exactly And I think that's we're an agency full of genuine people Yeah And that leads to us naturally aligning with clients who are equally as genuine And then what comes from that is what makes it exciting to do the work Yeah So this is all a shift to us being more genuine on the podcast Yeah So we're very excited about it I'm excited about it I'm excited to see what it does It's already more fun It's already more enjoyable to do Honestly it's all that matters to me really You know there's so much going on in the world It's that's just hard and heavy And so it's like this is not going to be one of them One of the things that for real is like that It needs to be I've gone back to really enjoying editing episodes that are like this and fun Wait I don't know why It's just It is more fun for me Yeah To edit and get excited to post and to know a fun episode is going to premiere It's going to drop soon than like than like a what I perceive as a boring one right just is And I feel better like I'm giving my I'm giving all of them like something real Something real Something good Like I'm not I'm not just like h this week they're going to be disappointed with this one

They're going to shut this one off 30 seconds in max That's it Yeah Yeah I mean they still might with our fun ones We're not for we we recognize this is not for everybody I my whole life my mom told me you're not for everybody No one's going to like you like that But you do you honey I've heard it my whole life Yep Same Z's I want to say just kidding mom but she would never listen to this Actually I had a conversation with her last week I think I'm like really she was like she was talking about listening to her podcast on the way home And I'm like "You listen to podcasts?" She's like "Yeah." And I'm like "Do you listen to my podcast?" And she literally was like "You have a podcast?" I was like Barbara mother are you being serious was she serious she I think she was Get out She does not get mother of the year She's very faithful on Facebook Mother's Day is cancelled That's the problem She's very faithful on Facebook She like watch she likes everything But this is another thing Okay going back to what I wouldn't wouldn't do the podcast Um podcasting Okay posting things on social media to promote the podcast Um I learned that Facebook is like not one of those places Um it's a waste of time I don't really know why but like like science has proven Facebook isn't one of those places However can't argue with science I did find that Facebook groups for podcasters are a good place So I joined I joined a group for podcasters on Facebook um which just kind of like once a week everyone's like promote your episode this week and everybody go like each other's episodes So I try to I try to stay up to date with that But I have learned through this year that using social media differently for the podcast You just have to do it differently You can't just promote the podcast the same across every platform And don't waste your time on platforms that aren't it's not like working on And so Facebook was the one that I gave up on because I'm just like it's not no one cares over there including my mom So I gave up over there So like LinkedIn was choosing was like really one that for like a second certain episodes especially like people on LinkedIn were really becoming really interested So I was like okay let's lean in more heavily toward LinkedIn for a second Um we get the most views on YouTube Don't know why but we do Um they want to see us They want to see us you know as you should If you're not listening on YouTube right now I just I really We are stunning You miss the faux fur Every now and then we pop in a picture facial expression You get to see Tim every now and then which everybody loves Yeah we So we parade him out once in a while give the people what they want But um we'll show him more if you keep coming back like I'll find you my favorite photos of him and I'll just like throw them on the screen Um but yeah so YouTube um Instagram is just kind of like where a lot of our audience is So we just like throw a reel up there But the YouTube shorts I found when I discovered YouTube shorts as a connector video life game changing because I can just make a clip and uh attach the full video and that brings people there So there's like lots of tricks like that that like again I learned and that are good to know Like don't don't waste your time on places where it's not working cuz not even your mom cares Um if you can't count on your mom Yeah You know Yeah You can't really have high expectations after that It's true I love you mom I'm sorry if you are listening which you're not Which she's not So it's okay Anything else you want this will be the one episode that she's like I listen to your podcast I listen to your the one that I'm lighting her up She's fine It's fine [Laughter] [Music] I did I want to go back and just say I did ask my siblings if it was okay to make those dead dad jokes cuz people were like "Whoa they were getting mad at me because I was the one saying like on TikTok." Okay Yes Okay The dead dad joke was my total doing I made her do it So that was all spontaneous And I also script I went to I went to Okay if you can't we have to laugh to keep from crying right i cried a lot the past few months Okay Um but it was a funny joke and my dad gave me permission to make dead dad jokes I'll come back to that Um but I asked my siblings be after I made that Tik Tok like "Are you guys okay if I post this or is this going to actually upset you?" Because I did not want to actually do anything to upset them And they both thought it was funny or like do it up So but anyway no my dad um my dad's briefly side point good story My dad's mother was horribly abusive and a horrible human And so our whole lives um his ongoing joke was um my mother used to say that when we'd say whatever and then he would say you know what she says now nothing cuz she's dead And so that was our our whole life just like my mother used to say that You know what she says now nothing cuz she's dead And we would joke about that And so when he was dying I was like can I make that joke about you when the time's right like you know what he says now nothing cuz he's dead And I'm like that's going to take me a second to make that joke but he was like dead dad joke it up Like it will be a good coping mechanism for you So it took me a couple months to make this dead dad joke but I was so shocked cuz this was just some backstory if people haven't seen it Um we did this episode for a podcaston that we were part of Yes And it was sponsoring the American Cancer Society and we both lost parents to cancer like you lost your dad and I lost my mom So we were talking about that and at the end of it we were saying how we should have like that Sarah McGlaclin song like and telling people please please like and subscribe and listen and I'm like we're like that's going to be our outro Haha And so then after that she's like oh my god I have to show you this video of these guys doing karaoke with that Sarah Mlaclin angel song And we were both dying And then she's like "We have to use this to promote this episode." And when she told me what she wanted me to say including you know would you support this producer with a dead dad and I'm like I can't say that I cannot And she's like my dad would love it Just do it It's hilarious And then yeah it went from there So people were shocked Yeah And then people and were Kevin was like "Anna Lynn too soon." And I'm like "It wasn't me." It was me This was my script babe No she would never It was I think it's one of the my favorite things that we've ever done And that podcast was a definite favorite Oh Yeah If you haven't watched it please go back and watch it And it's not too late to support the American Cancer Society So yeah That that was another just quick thing like if you can get involved in anything like a podcastathon like that really was a nice thing to be a part of a nice boost Sig Harvey or Tik Tok that was so insignificant to everybody else Put it in the

worksh I'm like first of all I'm telling sick on you guys None of you cares Artistically stunted people I'm like first of all none of you obviously watched this episode if you don't know who Sig is yet Annoying And I'm like this is a big deal Get with it But I was so excited that she saw that you featured her photography and that she was so touched Like I'm like yes this is I didn't I did not do that like for clout for her It was sincere but the fact that she saw it and was so touched like that meant a lot to me So so tag famous people in your posts cuz they might see it Yeah If you're talking about them like don't make it cringy like you're not I wasn't to her You weren't at all It was genuinely her photography and art helped you through your grief and continue to help you through your grief So it was a very genuine real discussion that she had to be a part of because she was part of your grief recovery And so that's why it worked But like don't just namerop so you can hashtag and try to get them to watch your episode because nobody likes that right julian Edelman Julian Edelman I thought of you when I was sad Can I tag you in this now right Are you still in Massachusetts i'm going to start thinking of every hot celebrity I can't think of any Like what's wrong with me are you not attracted to hot celebrities like I I'm like I've got 10 in my brain immediately Yeah I totally drowned I am the hot celebrity here So it's true See I'm just overcome being in your presence that I cannot think beyond your own People are tagging me in their podcasts constantly I'm just like guys I can't respond to every single comment I can't like everybody's post Uh occasionally I will just to like make someone happy but like it's a lot Got to leave some crumbs you know i feel like I wiped all of my makeup I put on makeup for this and was like I don't remember you And I was just like it's the the highlighter I'm using I went cra I always go crazy with it and people are always like you were extra sparkly today But it's literally the name of it is literally called trophy wife and I'm like that is exactly what I am So obviously I'm going to blast it all over my face and I don't want to ever hear another person tell me to chill with the highlighter I am the trophy wife You are Seo's trophy wife But it's been a long time since I put since I put on my trophy wife highlighter and I did that for you guys Good Yeah Thank you I have to wear makeup otherwise I look dead I don't think so Well Oh yeah You've seen me pretty raw raw face Yeah That's when you needed an organ to come out of you So yeah you saw me right after my surgery and stuff And yeah we're friends like that Okay we want to talk real podcast on location from the emergency room right from the operating room Do we have any like gynecological gynecological Yeah gynecological What is the word I could we need to clue everyone into that word Ambiguity is the word you were stumbling with How were you saying it it was am See I say it wrong now because I don't even remember how ambiguity I was trying to use it in a sentence so casually like that's a word She comes out with ambiguity and I was like ambu ambiguity Ambucy ambiguity How the heck do you I still this moment can't ambig How do you say it you have to say the ambiguity Ambig Ambiguity Ambiguity Good job Ambiguity You said it Ambiguity Yes Ambiguity What does that word mean

 it sounds so weird the way you're saying I was using it in a sentence like it was a real word I was trying to And the more I tried to say it the more I'm like this is not a real word It's It's like you're tasting something sour That's what it sounds like when you say ambiguity Ambiguity Yeah Okay Good job How was I trying to use that and how did I think that I could i So now that's our like fake word where I'm like I am you I'm feeling so much ambiguity And then we were trying to figure out so much ambiguity How many different ways to say it wrong 

I just don't I'm like that is a word that is never going to sit right in my brain and the fact that I thought I could drop it into a sentence I love that you tried though and I like stumbled You're a woman of const like stumbled like three time and was like forget this We're like in a serious conversation too and I'm like this is no longer serious cuz I am stuck And then I just never want to say that word right again And then that made me think of my daughter and how she mispronounced so many words when she was little and you just don't want to correct them So I wanted you to say booing all the time I'm like I'm not fixing that I was in an aquarium the other day and this man walked by with his daughters and he said he said an an he's making me say it wrong now He said anemy like an anamony and he said it so he said it dead serious this child is in an anommontomy And the person that I was with and I looked at each other and we were like we can't tell if he's being serious because he's saying it to was he mansplaining he's saying it to his children And I'm like he wasn't joking He was like oh and they're in an anonym And we're like an anemy Do I speak up or do I let this child and we both we just stared at each other like

Maybe it's an inside joke Maybe it's an inside joke I feel like a three-year-old but we were just like I can't com I as an ambiguity person I cannot I cannot critique him I love it Yeah My daughter's big thing and it was the hold out It was like the last word that she said wrong Instead of saying Canadian geese she'd say Canada geese Canada geese Canananada geese That's so cute Look look papa It's a canana geese It's a canana geese And I'm like first it's a goose Singular There's only one Like I am terrible I'm like I know I'm constantly like editing my child and she's like "Shut up mom Just let me speak my speech." Oh it's dead Oh dang it That's the end So we talked too long We talked too long That's the end of this episode This is I have to dive into your camera This has never happened before Come sit with me It probably has Okay Well we'll say goodbye now Bye Love you so much Till next time Happy one year Yes Happy one year Yay us Love you